" You couldn’t just pick and choose at will when someone depended on you, or loved you. It wasn’t like a light switch, easy to turn on or off. If you were in, you were in. Out, you were out. "
" The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing, and becomes nothing. Chained by his certitude, he is a slave; he has forfeited his freedom. Only the person who risks is truly free. "